PeregrineFox - April A. R. Rooker

Posting a profile of myself, and what I’m looking for in a partner may seem like a rather contrived way to try to meet someone compatible. But I think this can be a good beginning, if I paint an accurate picture of myself, and you are honest about who you are, what you are seeking in a mate, and whether you think you honestly possess the qualities I am seeking.

In light of that, here is what my friends and family tell me is a fairly indicative portrayal of myself, followed by a well-honed description of who I would like to share my life with.

I am passionate and intense about issues and experiences that are truly important to me, but I generally go through life trying to enjoy it with tolerance, grace and a sense of humor. I know myself pretty well, and am not afraid to ask for what I like.

For two years I had purple hair, inspired in part by an appreciation of Japanese anime, particularly the works of Takahashi and Miyazaki. I have since restored my original dark brown, but it indicates that I am not afraid to set my own course, and that I am willing to do the work to acquire and maintain the things I desire. I love going clubbing wherever the dance tunes are best, and would love a partner who is willing to risk looking like a fool in the name of the pleasure of powerful movement, but has no interest in drugs or alcohol. I lust after anything that will go 0-60 in under 5 seconds, and have recently acquired a coupe with a V6, six speed, 240 hp engine. Two of my animal totems are the fox and the falcon, who are all about speed, intensity, agility, and the ability to easily move back and forth between environments.

My home is a riot of color and character, and I have put a lot of energy and feng shui into making it a place I really enjoy. Lowe's and Home Depot are like second homes to me, and I am comfortable with hammers, power saws, and Dremel tools. I built myself an in-house radio station, so I can broadcast tunes on my computer to any radio in the house - a sign along with my TiVo and DVD recorder that I'm a real gadget girl!

I love ethnic restaurants, sushi, 80s alternative music and club tunes, Monty Python, Black Adder, Douglas Adams, action movies and sci-fi of all flavors, including Star Wars (the original 3), Star Trek, Stargate SG-1 and Farscape. I also have a weakness for detective dramas, particularly NYPD Blue, Law & Order Criminal Intent, and BBC/PBS mysteries. Two of my very favorite movies are the Matrix, and Amélie. My preferred people are computer techs, because as a general rule they share my love for sci-fi and technology, as well as my irreverent views and dry sense of humor.

While I am passionate about enjoying life, I am also a contemplative seeker!

I'm deeply spiritual, but have lost respect for organized religion. I think one's faith is best formed over time, with a great deal of searching and self-knowledge. I never blindly accept much of anything. My beliefs are best described as “New Age”. I try to live by a strict code of compassion and honesty, and strive to be a diplomat in all of my relationships. It’s important that you share my interest in things like astrology, spirit guides and other forms of spiritual practice. Without these shared interests, we may become friends, but we are unlikely to profoundly connect.

I am very cerebral, and spend a lot of time thinking about world events, the struggles of society, and what makes people and relationships tick. My radio is usually tuned to NPR and I subscribe to the Economist. I program databases for a living.

So now, here's the tough part, because I'm looking for a man who is as unique, well-balanced and complex as I am.

You have spent a great deal of time getting to know yourself, what makes you happy, and what you need in a mate. As my equal, you are mentally agile, self-confident and charming. You are attractive, perceptive and intuitive, and laugh easily, often at yourself! You match me in intensity and passion, but are not overly serious, or cynical to the point of bitterness. You are spiritually aware, and have a strong ethical code, but are not religious.

You are sophisticated and knowledgeable about world events, and not necessarily with an Amerocentric perspective. You are looking for an equal, companion and partner, with whom you can travel and play. You are sincere about finding a mate, not a plaything, and while you may initially be intrigued by my photo, you will remain interested in my mind and personality. You believe in life-long love, and are willing to put in the time and energy to build a strong foundation for a relationship, and help make it last.

Having read all of this, you may be curious and wish to get in touch. But first I must request that you ask yourself honestly whether you are personally intense and passionate, and if you have what I call “fire in your veins”. If not, we may become friends, but not more than that. I have met a number of men who match me well on paper, but were lacking in what I would call backbone, zeal, fire, etc. I’m not looking for a self-absorbed, competitive social climber, and have no patience for such people. But you must have strength of character, a willingness to stand up for what is important to you, honesty, integrity and openness to gain my respect and love.

I may seem demanding, or a lot to handle, but I make no effort to hide who I am, and you will know what to expect if you decide you’d like to meet me. So if you think you can keep up with my quick mind, far out beliefs, and off-beat interests, please contact me at EmotionalBeing@PeregrineFox.com.